The powerful impact of quilt created in memory of people who have died by suicide

Last week, I had the privilege of visiting the Lothians Speak Their Name quilt, currently being displayed in St Bryce Kirk until November 13.

It a breathtaking, and profoundly hopeful, memorial created in memory of people who have died by suicide.

Each of the 49 squares that make up the quilt was lovingly stitched by someone who has lost a friend, a partner, a parent, or a child to suicide. Every square represents a life lost, but more importantly, they tell the story of a life lived. Together, they form a tapestry of love, grief, and remembrance that speaks louder than words ever could.

As I stood before the quilt, what struck me most was its power.

David Torrance at the  Speak Their Name quilt, currently being displayed in St Bryce Kirk (Pic: Submitted)placeholder image
David Torrance at the Speak Their Name quilt, currently being displayed in St Bryce Kirk (Pic: Submitted)

This project has given people a place to remember, to share memories, and to heal. For many, it is the first time they’ve been able to speak openly about their loss and to find comfort among others who truly understand.

The quilt is both an artwork and a community; one that no one ever wanted to join, but where each person knows they are not alone.

In 2023, 792 people in Scotland took their own lives, 590 of these were men. Behind every one of those numbers is a family, a circle of friends, and a community forever changed.

We know that those bereaved by suicide are 65% more likely to attempt to take their own life. Projects like this are not only about remembrance, but they are also about prevention. They remind us that talking about suicide does not encourage it; silence does.

Lothians Speak Their Name shows us that compassion and conversation can save lives. It asks all of us to meet others with kindness. Sometimes that small act of humanity can make the difference between someone getting through the day or not.

The quilt is a beautiful testament to love, but it is also a call to action: to speak, to listen, and to care.

I’ll continue to champion better mental health support and community wellbeing in Parliament, because every single life matters.

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