Mental health support group for Fife men launches online meetings

A support group for men to talk about mental health has launched video calls to help enduring lockdown.

Pete’s Man Chat has started weekly Zoom calls in place of its regular meetings at the Buffalo Farm’s Bothy on Boglily Road, Kirkcaldy.

The group was launched by Pete Melville (35), after he noticed a rise in mental health issues amongst men.

The stockman at Buffalo Farm started the group after helping some of his own friends through tough times.

It was gaining traction before lockdown, with 10 to 15 attending, and the move online allows it to continue its work.

Pete said: “Obviously we can’t meet in person now so we have been meeting at the same time every Sunday on the video call platform, Zoom.

“It is working out great but we can’t really get into the nitty-gritty of it all because the guys might have somebody else in the house with them and are maybe a little bit uncomfortable talking about their feelings.

“But, it is all very casual and no-one is under any obligation to attend every week - the group gives them some place to talk about things and to blow off some steam.”

“In the three months leading up to lockdown, Pete’s Man Chat Movement has helped several members combat their mental health issues.

Pete said: “One guy’s issues were so severe that he couldn’t come to the group. After attending a few sessions he was a completely different person.

““The group has done exactly what I had wanted it to do. The guys are making new friendships and there are also a couple who have taken on a mentoring role.

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“What I’m aiming to do is to have a blueprint for a group that works so we can start others elsewhere - maybe one for older or younger guys or even for women, it doesn’t have to be all about men.”

With lockdown conditions continuing, Pete is urging anyone who may need support or just a friendly face to chat with to join in.

He said: “We accept everyone. If they are struggling and need to talk to someone, I’m here for them.

“I know that it can be awkward for someone new to join a group that is conducted via video calls, but I feel that it is a good soft start for anyone thinking about coming along when lockdown is lifted.

“I do have a few ideas on how we can keep the group going outdoors once restrictions are eased, and I would also like to collaborate with other organisations to make it easier for people to get access to help or support as mental health touches all aspects of life.”

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